The hypothesis is generally not accepted by mainstream psychologists.
Not as degradation but as a commitment to their relationship.To the point of anger and resentment of his partner.He craves an outlet to make things right again in his mind. they will settle for negative attention if that is all they can get.Bicameralism (the philosophy of "two-chamberedness") is a hypothesis in psychology that argues that the human mind once assumed a state in which cognitive functions were divided between one part of the brain which appears to be "speaking", and a second part which listens and obeys—a bicameral mind.The term was coined by Julian Jaynes, who presented the idea in his 1976 book The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind, wherein he made the case that a bicameral mentality was the normal and ubiquitous state of the human mind as recently as 3000 years ago.He will really not want it to be a secret, but it is. He needs to understand her expectations and how to make her happy. For in that scenario he is free to feel he is trying to satisfy his partner, and even if he falls short she cares enough to stick to rules and not abandon him emotionally mentally or physically.